Podcast Title:
Tha Motiv8tors Table
Host:
Dr. JayR McIntyre
Summary:
JJ Howland, a U.S. Marine Corps veteran and former radio reconnaissance signals intelligence Marine, joins Dr. JayR McIntyre to share how he rebuilt his life after military service. Raised in a wrestling family in Virginia Beach, JJ gave up college scholarships to join the Marines after 9/11, then lost his sense of purpose and identity once he transitioned out, spiraling into years of drinking, drug use, and homelessness. A near overdose and the look on his parents’ faces in the hospital became the turning point that led him into cognitive processing therapy at the VA. From there he rebuilt through fitness, a 30 day sobriety challenge that has now stretched past five years, and a return to wrestling that grew into his own gym in Atlanta. After watching one of his young athletes attempt suicide, JJ closed the gym to travel full time, now coaching wrestling and sharing his story of addiction, mental health, and resilience with veterans, entrepreneurs, and kids across more than 110 cities and 11 countries.
Main Topics:
â—Ź Military life and transition
â—Ź Overcoming addiction
â—Ź Mental health and healing
â—Ź Becoming stronger after pain
â—Ź Leadership and accountability
â—Ź Building a new life after setbacks
â—Ź Why your story is not over
Intriguing Quotes:
“Your validation comes from you, not from external, not from other people.” (JJ Howland)
“That small simple task is the one thing that started the process of getting me clean from drugs, getting me sober, getting me back in fitness shape, physically and mentally.” (JJ Howland)
“Give more than you ever think about receiving.” (JJ Howland)
“Everything that we do is a choice. If you don’t change it, you’re choosing it.” (JJ Howland)
“Where do the healers go get healed? Where do the motivators go get motivated?” (Dr. JayR McIntyre)
“Pain doesn’t define you. Your comeback does.” (Dr. JayR McIntyre)
Key Moments:
[00:02:04] - JJ describes growing up in a wrestling family in Virginia Beach with a pastor and cop father
[00:03:25] - JJ explains joining the Marine Corps as a radio reconnaissance signals intelligence Marine after 9/11 reshaped his path
[00:04:13] - JJ describes losing his purpose and identity after leaving the Marine Corps and falling into addiction and homelessness
[00:05:18] - A near overdose lands JJ in the hospital, and his parents seeing him for the first time becomes the turning point
[00:06:08] - JJ credits cognitive processing therapy at the VA as the foundation for everything that got him clean
[00:08:52] - Gym owner Frank challenges JJ to 30 days sober in Key West, a streak JJ has now carried past five years
[00:22:15] - An athlete’s suicide attempt becomes the moment JJ decides to close his wrestling gym and travel full time to spread his message
[00:49:53] - JJ shares what he would tell his younger self - validation comes from within, make your bed daily, give more than you receive, and live and enjoy life
Notable Guests/Resources:
JJ Howland is a U.S. Marine Corps veteran, former radio reconnaissance signals intelligence Marine, and a wrestling coach and motivational speaker based in Atlanta. After closing his own wrestling gym to travel full time, he now works across more than 110 cities and 11 countries, teaching wrestling technique alongside life lessons on addiction recovery, mental health, and resilience to veterans, entrepreneurs, and youth.
Sponsors mentioned:
Los Angeles Tribune, Riverside, Seven Eagle Academy.